Finding Your Calling From God: A Surprising Truth You Need to Know

Does the idea of finding your calling from God feel too subjective or difficult?

I spent years trying to perfectly discern God’s calling for my life.  Meanwhile, I missed the most obvious part of his calling.

I invite you to join me as I coax our youngest child to sleep, and we’ll talk about finding God’s calling.

Finding Your Calling From God

The dusky light of summer’s slow fade into autumn makes its way through partially drawn curtains, and I read until the darkness is too thick to see the words.

Setting aside the book, I gaze at the tiny boy in my arms.  He seems to encompass most of my time in this season.  Most of the time, I’m embracing the calling to be his mom.

Tonight, he is restless in my arms.  I’ve tried to put him into his bed three times.  Slowly removing my hand from beneath his fuzzy head one fraction of an inch at a time, his little eyes open wide the instant my index finger ceases to touch him.

Maybe I could learn something from this boy who can’t stand to be outside the grip of grace.

Maybe I should become a little more attentive to the Father’s touch on my life, jolting up wide-eyed in awareness the instant I move away from the guidance of his gentle right hand.

For the fifth time, I lift the little one out of his bed and return to our vigil by the window.  I remind myself that this is my calling in life for this season.

I’d like to be sleeping so that I have the energy to get to the other work of my life when morning dawns, but I remind myself that for now, this is the work to which I am called.

Insights on Finding Your Calling From God

This is the work of nurturing little souls throughout all hours of the day and night.

This is the work of caring for basic needs, feeding little mouths, and rocking little bodies until sleep finally comes.  And it is holy work.

Not long ago, a friend reminded me of the way we often associate the holiest moments of encountering God’s presence with silence, solitude, and peace.  We think of coffee on seashores, sunsets over rolling fields, and serene moments along lake-sides with open Bibles and worshipful hearts.

These moments are certainly holy.  God’s presence often feels palpable in these places.

But God’s presence is just as real and his holiness is just as near when we are splashing in those not-so-serene waters with our children, breaking up arguments, correcting them about keeping their hands to themselves, and managing the chaos of our everyday lives.

I ponder it all as I consider the idea of finding your calling from God.

Most of us assume that a calling is all about what we are doing.

We speak of the holy calling of motherhood,

the calling to minister to others,

the calling of career,

and the calling of friendship.

These callings focus on what we are “doing.”

Redefining Your Calling

But we’re missing the primary truth about our callings.  Ruth Haley Barton reminds us of this truth: Calling is first of all about who we are, not what we do.

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When I first encountered Ruth’s words, they shocked me.  I thought she was wrong.

However, digging a little deeper, I realized that she was speaking words of truth.

Before you are called to be a mother, a nurse, a wife, a Sunday school teacher, an evangelist, or anything else, you are called to be the beloved of Christ.  Quite literally, Jesus calls you beloved, and this is your primary calling.

When you realize that you are precious, cherished, and chosen, you are free to drift in and out of life’s various assignments without using those assignments to determine your worth or your identity.

When you realize that above all else, you are beloved, you can survive the catastrophic loss of a ministry, a mission field, a dream, or a career.

Remember Your Primary Calling

And so, before you decide that your calling isn’t what you hoped it would be, before you define yourself by the way you spend your time, remember your primary calling.

Remember that you are a beloved child who is so cherished that you were bought for a price.  You are so precious to your Father that he gave the life of his Son so that you could have life.  Nothing can take his love away from you.  He will never abandon you.  You are God’s precious child, and this is your first and highest calling.

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I consider these truths as the little one finally settles into deep sleep.  His jaw is agape as the humid night air wafts through the open window.  I place him gently in his bed, and this time, he doesn’t stir.  He rests, just as he is, and I embrace the opportunity to do the same.

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Calling all moms and daughters!

Additionally, my teen daughter, Bekah, and I are passionate about helping moms and daughters grow closer while connecting with God.  We have written two mother-daughter devotionals together.  Girl to Girl: 60 Mother-Daughter Devotions for a Closer Relationship and Deeper Faith is written for girls ages 7-12. It includes 60 devotions with Scripture, conversation starters, and a shared journaling section after each devotion.

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Resource: Ruth Haley Barton, Strengthening the Soul of Your Leadership Podcast, https://transformingcenter.org/2018/04/season-4-episode-2-place-conversion/