15 Bible Verses for Wives: Encouragement and Hope
Many young girls dream of growing up, getting married, and raising families. When these dreams finally come true, they realize that being a wife is far more challenging than they imagined. Today, we’ll explore 15 encouraging Bible verses for wives. Then, we’ll look at a way to find great joy in our marriages and lives.
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15 Bible Verses for Wives
Let’s begin with God’s Word.
Bible Verses for Wives: Encouragement for Your Marriage
1. 1 Peter 3:4 (ESV)
But let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God’s sight is very precious.
According to this verse, we cultivate beauty by surrendering our lives to God’s guidance.
Most wives want to be beautiful in outward appearance. May we put just as much energy into caring for our souls.
2. Philippians 4:8
Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things.
Our thoughts matter. Rather than thinking critical thoughts about your husband, take every thought captive.
Aim to cultivate gratitude for the good things your husband offers. Don’t dwell on the negatives. Change your thoughts, and you can change your marriage.
3. Ephesians 4:32
Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.
Rather than defending ourselves, imagine how different our marriages would be if we were tenderhearted toward one another.
Ask God to give you a tender heart toward your husband. Ask him to help you respond with gentleness instead of being accusatory or defensive.
This is a prayer God will answer because he wants us to be tenderhearted toward one another.
4. Mark 11:25
And whenever you stand praying, forgive, if you have anything against anyone, so that your Father also who is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses.
We are all broken people, and we all hurt one another. Extending forgiveness in marriage is crucial.
Ask God to show you if you have a root of bitterness or resentment toward your husband. If he reveals a bitter root, confess this sinful attitude. Repent by turning away from bitterness and turning toward God.
Forgive your husband. This doesn’t mean trust is automatically restored, but forgiveness will free you from bitterness. You will need to practice forgiving him repeatedly, often for the same offense.
By choosing this lifestyle of forgiveness, you protect your marriage from the root of bitterness. This root will eventually destroy your marriage if left unchecked.
5. Romans 12:10
Outdo one another in showing honor.
Many husbands and wives fall into the unhealthy pattern of competing with one another. When one a wife feels like she is doing more than her fair share of the household work, she might mentally keep a list of everything she has done, comparing it with her husband’s meager contribution.
Rather than competing in this way, what if we committed to outdoing one another in showing honor by serving each other?
Ask God to give you joy as you serve your husband. This is his desire for you. He wants to change your heart and transform your marriage.
6. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7
Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
These words were originally written by the Apostle Paul to the early church in Corinth. He was teaching God’s people how to love one another.
In modern times, these verses are often read at weddings. They are helpful admonitions in marriage as well.
Our marriages would be transformed if we put these words into action. The first three words in this passage are a good place to start: “Love is patient.” Many marriage struggles could be averted by simple patience.
7. Proverbs 21:9
It is better to live in a corner of the housetop than in a house shared with a quarrelsome wife.
Scripture refers to a nagging wife as a dripping faucet. It’s hard to find peace when the faucet is dripping all hours of the day and night.
Ask God if this is an area of growth for your marriage. Do you regularly stir up arguments? What is God revealing? What is he asking from you?
8. Ephesians 5:33
However, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.
Paul wrote these words the men in the church in Ephesus. These men were good at caring for their needs, but this often came at the cost of caring for their wives.
Husbands are to love their wives, meeting their needs in the same way they take care of their own needs.
Wives are to respect their husbands. As a wife, this leads me to ask, “Do I respect my husband at all times? Or do I grumble behind his back? Do I respect him when I talk about him to my friends?”
May we always aim to love and respect one another, when we are together and when we are apart.
9. Ephesians 5:22
Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord.
Let’s begin by noting that all believers are to submit to one another. Jesus submitted to the Father. This was not an act of weakness, but strength.
It was a willful act of following his Father’s leadership. Jesus and the Father are equals in every way.
Yet the authority structure called Jesus to submit to his Father’s will. The beauty is that the Father’s will offered the perfect path for the Son to follow.
When husbands love their wives with self-sacrificing love, as Christ loved the church, following this leadership is a gift for a wife. She knows her husband will not lead her astray. She is also liberated from the weight of making all the decisions.
Of course, there are times when husbands abuse these words and misunderstand them.
In these cases, wives are to turn to the Lord for direction. If a husband is abusive or manipulating, if he leads his wife into sin, she is to follow the Lord’s guidance. God never leads us into abuse or manipulation.
10. 1 Peter 4:8
Above all, keep loving one another earnestly, since love covers a multitude of sins.
Love keeps no record of wrongs.
Are you holding onto mistakes your husband has made in the past? If you have worked through these issues and sought reconciliation, it’s time to let go. You might need to meet with a therapist to help you. If this is the case, do so. God wants to heal your marriage.
11. Mark 10:6-9
But from the beginning of creation, ‘God made them male and female.’ ‘Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.’ So they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.
Before my husband and I were married, a friend quoted this verse and said, “Two cannot become one unless they were first two.”
She was saying that we must know who we are as God’s children, complete and anchored in our identities, if we are to thrive in marriage. Our marriages can only be as strong as the weakest partner.
Seek to heal your own trauma and brokenness. When you are both working on your individual issues, you can come into a marriage as equally yoked partners, and two lives can beautifully become one.
12. Ecclesiastes 4:9-12
Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their toil. For if they fall, one will lift up his fellow. But woe to him who is alone when he falls and has not another to lift him up! Again, if two lie together, they keep warm, but how can one keep warm alone? And though a man might prevail against one who is alone, two will withstand him—a threefold cord is not quickly broken.
We were designed to live, grow, and heal with others. God wants marriage to be one of these relationships for growth and healing.
In the Garden of Eden, God said, “It is not good for man to be alone.” He then made Eve to help Adam.
How are you helping your spouse fulfill his or her God-given calling?
Hopeful Bible Verses for Wives
13. Mark 10:9
What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.
Many forces will try to divide your marriage. A battle takes place in the spiritual realm. Satan wants to destroy your marriage.
Never forget that your husband is not your enemy; Satan is your enemy, and he comes to destroy.
Fight for your marriage by praying, seeking professional therapy, and aiming to follow Jesus’ example of selfless love.
14. Colossians 3:12
Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience.
Our marriages would be restored if we learned to exemplify these traits.
How can you contribute to your marriage by extending compassion, humility, kindness, meekness, and patience?
15. Galatians 5:22
But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness.
Our lives bear good fruit when we remain connected to the Vine, Jesus. Invest in your marriage by pursuing Christ.
Read your Bible. Pray. Gather with other believers to worship. Talk to God as you go about your days.
As you draw near to Jesus, he will help you bear the fruit of love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Your husband will be drawn to these characteristics. Your marriage will move in a healthy direction.
Let’s Apply These Bible Verses for Wives to Our Lives
My husband and I have been married for 20 years. Here are a few applications of these Bible verses for wives.
First, learn to let go of the small things.
The towels on the bathroom floor and stubble in the sink might annoy you. Ask God to help you choose what to hold onto and what to release. Learn to laugh and let it go.
Second, ask God to help you serve your husband as if you are serving Jesus.
When you fold the laundry, prepare dinner, or rake the leaves, remind yourself that by serving your husband, you are serving Jesus. Ask God to give you a servant’s heart.
Third, stay playful.
Cultivate the activities that brought you together.
Keep laughing together. Create room for taking yourselves less seriously.
Fourth, don’t keep track of offenses.
When issues arise, hash them out. But don’t keep lists. This won’t lead you anywhere you want to go.
Fifth, pursue Christ.
Seek Christ for yourself, and your marriage will be blessed.
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