Purposeful Living

A Surprising Way to Keep in Step With the Spirit

Every summer, we clean our house by spraying it with a soapy, homemade concoction.  Due to a malfunctioning sprayer, we had a hard time reaching the upper story of the house last summer.  After volunteering to undertake the task, I had no idea that our moldy siding was about to be a lesson on how to keep in step with the Spirit of the Living God.

A Surprising Way to Keep in Step With the Spirit

“No problem,” I declared, “We can pop the screens out of the upstairs windows and spray it from inside.”

On a blazing hot August afternoon, I stuck my head out my son’s open bedroom window and attempted to spray the house with a piddly stream of soapy water.

Realizing that the sprayer still wasn’t functioning correctly, I pumped it about fifty times with hopes to increase the pressure.  Mind you, I was standing in a bedroom.

Much to my shock, the pumping worked—just not in the way I was expecting.  The pressure became so strong that it blew the hose straight off the jug.  With the force of a firehose, soapy water sprayed the entire bedroom.  By the time I’d thrown the explosive device out the window, my two-year-old son and I stood soapy, forlorn, and in shock.

Deciding to Keep in Step With the Spirit

His big blue eyes searched my face for a response as soap bubbles streamed from his matted blonde hair.

In a split second, I made a decision.

Instead of lashing out in frustration, I decided to laugh.  I decided to lighten up and take myself less seriously.  My little boy burst into giggles, and we laughed about the explosion all afternoon.

As I reflected on the event later in the day, I realized that choosing to laugh was a victory.

Often, I’m so focused on my plans and purposes that I can’t laugh at myself.  Slowly, God is teaching me to be humble enough to laugh at my imperfections and gentle enough to extend grace to myself.  I’m learning to lighten up and take myself less seriously.

This joy-filled way of living feels like tapping into the childlikeness Jesus desires for us.  It is also a surprisingly simple way to keep in step with the Spirit of God.

As God’s kingdom-bearers, we are the emotional epicenters of our homes and workplaces.  What if we learned to laugh more freely, let go of the little things, and embrace spontaneity?  What if we were known for our humility, gentleness, and patience? I believe we’d change the world—one smile at a time.

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Learning to Laugh Deeply

When was the last time you humbly laughed at yourself in a frustrating moment?

Do you tend to lose your patience in frustration, or are you able to laugh at life’s mishaps?

God has a sense of humor.  He is also full of joy and even whimsy.

I encourage you to ask God to show you a recent moment when you reacted with anger but could have reacted with laughter.  What does he want to show you about taking yourself less seriously?  Is this a shift that would be healthy for you?

Watch for opportunities to cultivate joy, humility, patience, and humor today.

When situations don’t go your way, step back and let yourself laugh.  Notice how this approach infuses even your most frustrating situations with joy, and notice how the people around you respond.  In doing so, you will keep in step with the Spirit of God.

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I’m passionate about equipping others to encounter God in powerful and life-changing ways. When I’m not writing, you’ll find me hiking, jogging, exploring wild places with my three young children and husband, leading small groups, and mentoring younger women. A certified special education teacher, I am on leave from the classroom for a season of chasing frogs and playing in creeks with my little ones. Most of all, the compassionate love of Jesus has forever ravished my heart, and I'm emphatic about making his love known to the world.