Overcoming Trials

God Uses Broken People—and He Wants to Use You

Have you ever wondered if your mistakes disqualify you from serving God?  Today, I warmly invite you to travel back in time with me, and I’ll bear witness to the fact that God uses broken people—and he wants to use you.

God Uses Broken People

My early twenties were tumultuous.

I was angry with God and decided to live for myself instead of living for him.  After a few tough years, I realized I wasn’t cultivating the life I wanted for myself.  I returned to God with a humble heart and asked him to help me put my life back together.

Slowly, God began the restorative work of healing my heart.  I also began to realize that God uses broken people to fulfill his purposes.

When I first returned to the Lord, I felt disqualified from ministering to others.

I remember sharing my feelings with a mentor who looked straight into my eyes and said, “Stacey, God will use the hard parts of your story to minister to others in powerful ways.”

Decades later, I can attest that my mentor was right. God has used the most painful parts of my story to minister to young women who are facing similar situations. In fact, the hard parts of my story are the precise reason some of the women in my life have decided to trust me.

Nobody wants to share their dirt with someone who is perfect. The women in my life know I’ve made mistakes. Because I’m willing to offer them glimpses into God’s healing work in my life, they offer me the gift of transparency about their lives.

I share this humbly.  I share it to encourage every person who feels too broken to be used by God.

God uses broken vessels.

God uses broken people, and no one is too broken to be used by God.

The hard parts of my current story include career disappointments, parenting failures, fear, anxiety, and more. When I start to question God’s purpose for these troubles, I remind myself that he will use these parts of my story to encourage and comfort others as well.

Second Corinthians 1:4 tells us that God wants us to comfort others with the same comfort we first received from him.

God will use the hard parts of your story to comfort, encourage, and inspire others, too. Revelation 12:11 reminds us that we overcome the enemy by the blood of the Lamb and the word of our testimony.

Your story matters and God wants to use it—even the imperfect parts—to minister to others.

Your story matters and God wants to use it—even the imperfect parts—to minister to others. #brokenness #weakness #mininstry #lovingothers Share on X

Weakness Is the Perfect Platform for God to Make His Power Known

A few months ago, I wrote about the morning after our first child was born.  As I held my baby in the hospital room, God reminded me of nine short words: “For when I am weak, then I am strong” (2 Corinthians 12:10).

I knew God wasn’t asking me to equip myself for the calling of motherhood.  He wasn’t calling me to perfection or self-sufficient strength; instead, he was teaching me to trust him.  He reminded me that he would give me all I needed to care for our child.

That moment in the hospital took place more than twelve years ago, but I remember it often.  It has become an anchor on my journey of parenthood.

Every time I start to doubt my ability to raise my children, I remind myself that my weakness is the perfect platform for God to show up in his power.

He provides all I need for every step of this journey.

God is not calling you to hold your world together either.  Perhaps you feel weak and entirely insufficient in some realm of your life. You might feel like you’ve messed up too much or are too broken to minister to others.

You Have Never Fallen Too Far

If this is you, seek healing through pastoral care, counseling, and a community of loving people.  Let God begin the work of healing your heart.  But remember this: Your weakest areas are the precise places where God is waiting to move and make his power known.

God is inviting you to new levels of trust.  He is allowing this weakness so that you can experience his power and encounter him in new ways.

God is inviting you to new levels of trust. He is allowing this weakness so that you can experience his power and encounter him in new ways. #trustingGod #weakness Share on X
God uses broken people

A New Online Devotional Book to Inspire You and Help You Find Healing

God wants to minister to your brokenness so that you are equipped to minister to others.  Set Free: Let God Do What You Cannot explores ten realms in which most of us need God to work in our lives and bring deliverance.  We’ll talk about finding freedom from fear, worry, insecurity, bad habits, emotional pain, and more.  This short online devotional will bless you as you let God accomplish what you’ve been unable to achieve through willpower.  Get your download for free with promo code GRACE right here.

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Calling all moms and daughters!

Additionally, my teen daughter, Bekah, and I are passionate about helping moms and daughters grow closer while connecting with God.  We have written two mother-daughter devotionals together.  Girl to Girl: 60 Mother-Daughter Devotions for a Closer Relationship and Deeper Faith is written for girls ages 7-12. It includes 60 devotions with Scripture, conversation starters, and a shared journaling section after each devotion.

Heart to Heart: A Mother-Daughter Devotional With 50 Devotions for Teen Girls is for teenage girls ages 13-20.  It includes 50 devotions, each with a shared journaling section to help moms and daughters connect through writing.  This is a great book for moms who want to communicate about awkward topics—like dating, purity, peer pressure, and more—but don’t know where to start.  We will help you!

Multitudes of mothers, daughters, mentors, and younger women are being transformed by these books!  You can buy them as paperbacks or get your free Kindle Unlimited eBooks on Amazon right here.

I’m passionate about equipping others to encounter God in powerful and life-changing ways. When I’m not writing, you’ll find me hiking, jogging, exploring wild places with my three young children and husband, leading small groups, and mentoring younger women. A certified special education teacher, I am on leave from the classroom for a season of chasing frogs and playing in creeks with my little ones. Most of all, the compassionate love of Jesus has forever ravished my heart, and I'm emphatic about making his love known to the world.