Seeking God With All Your Heart: 11 Tips for Your Quiet Time
All too often, I set aside time to draw near to God but end up distracted. If seeking God with all your heart ever ends in distraction or frustration for you, I invite you to join me in my struggle, and I’ll share a simple tip that has changed the way I pursue God.
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Seeking God With All Your Heart
Come close to God and He will come close to you.
James 4:8
The Canada thistle has emerged with lavender crowns huddled in the morning light. Admiring the colorful blossoms from my chair at the window, I open my Bible to the bookmarked page.
I’ve read a full page when I realize that I’ve been thinking about our weekend plans instead of paying attention to the reading. Putting down the Bible, I open my journal in an attempt to focus. I list three gifts for which I’m thankful: Canada thistle, summer sunrises, and weekends at the cabin.
I don’t take time to savor these blessings or allow a sense of appreciation to wash over me. Hurriedly, I move to the next part of my quiet time routine. I pray for my husband and children as well as everyone on my Wednesday prayer list.
Next, I quickly confess a sinful moment when I lost my patience with my son the previous day—as well as an overindulgent moment involving a batch of chocolate cookies. I conclude my time by gazing at the purple thistle blossoms and attempting to rest with God. Mostly, my mind drifts to listing everything I need to buy at the grocery store later in the day.
Checking the clock, I realize it’s already 7:15—time to move on to the next part of the morning routine. I close the Bible and walk to the kitchen to wash the breakfast dishes.
Checking Boxes off the List or Seeking God With All Your Heart?
Maybe you can relate to the scenario I just described. You know that setting aside time to meet with God is an important part of your day. Much to your frustration, you often have trouble focusing, and many days, quiet time is one more box to check off your daily to-do list.
Let me begin by cheering you on for making an effort. We will not connect with God in meaningful ways during our quiet time if we never carve out quiet time in the first place. In the meantime, it’s important to remind ourselves of the purpose of this time.
If our purpose is to read our Bibles, pray through lists of needs, and name a few blessings, we are missing God’s design for our quiet moments with him. God calls us to set aside quiet moments in his presence because he wants to connect with us.
Throughout the past year, I’ve learned to approach my quiet time with a different mentality. I remind myself that my goal is not Bible reading, prayer, worship, confession, or journaling. These disciplines can help me reach my goal—and they often do help—but they are not ends in themselves. Instead, the goal of my quiet time is to encounter the living God.
Whether you are reading a book, reading your Bible, praying, listening to a worship song, or writing in your journal, God’s purpose for your quiet time is connection with him.
Make connection your highest aim, and your quiet time can become the most cherished part of your day and not one more box to check.
Seeking God With All Your Heart by Practicing Daily Devotions
Today, we’re going to look at 11 practical steps for seeking God with all your heart by practicing a daily devotional time.
Let’s talk about how to make this happen.
1. Find a quiet space where you feel comfortable.
Ultimately, we want daily devotions to become a regular part of our daily rhythms. For this reason, a comfortable and quiet space is important.
You might choose your office, a chair by the window, your porch, your bedroom, or anywhere that is peaceful.
For moms of young children, this space might be the bathroom. I have lived through this and can attest that any quiet space will work.
If your house is never quiet, aim to find the quietest space you can find. I’ve used white noise with earbuds while cartoons blared in the next room many times.
2. Find a time of day that works for you.
Morning is ideal because meeting with God first thing starts the day by focusing on him.
If morning doesn’t work, your lunch break or evening can also work.
The key here is to build devotional time into your routine so that you don’t even have to think about doing it. It needs to become automatic.
I do my devotional time in the morning while I eat breakfast. If I’m eating breakfast, I’m doing devotions. This keeps it a routine part of my day.
You might have to experiment with this at first to see what works. Don’t give up. You’ll find the right time as you stick with it.
It’s also important to note that as seasons of life change, your place and time might need to change, too.
3. Be realistic.
An hour might sound like a good place to start, but I suggest even a few minutes.
This does not have to be a huge amount of time. Commit what you can.
Two minutes will be better than no minutes at all.
For many people, 5-15 minutes tends to be a good range, especially at first.
More on Seeking God With All Your Heart: What to Actually Do During This Time
Now, let’s talk about what we actually do during this time. Daily devotions often consist of some of the following activities: interacting with the Bible, praying, journaling, being still with God, and worshiping.
Let’s take a closer look at these activities.
4. Quiet yourself and be still with God.
A good way to start this time is by taking even 30 seconds to be still in God’s presence.
I like to close my eyes or look out the window and take a minute to let my thoughts settle. When random thoughts come, I let them pass by like clouds on the canvas of my mind. My goal for this time is to breathe quietly and move out of the fast pace of the day.
I think about God’s love for me and imagine him smiling joyfully as I set aside this time.
5. Thank God for his gifts.
After a moment of stillness, I usually begin my time by thanking God.
Giving thanks opens neuropathways in our brains that make it easier to connect with God relationally.
Some days, I list a few blessings from the past day in my journal. On other days, I verbally thank God for whatever I see outside the window or whatever comes to mind.
The key here is to cultivate gratitude.
6. Confess any sins to God.
After stillness and gratitude, I usually pray this prayer: “God, search my heart and show me if I have offended you or sinned against you since I last sat in this space.”
I wait for a moment and pay attention to any thoughts that arise. Usually, I recall a misspoken word or bad attitude.
I confess any sins that come to mind to God and repent of them, asking God to help me turn away from these behaviors and turn toward him in love and obedience.
7. Read the Bible.
Bible reading is an important part of devotional time. God uses his written Word as his primary tool for renewing our minds.
I usually use a Bible reading plan and read the daily reading. Sometimes, I read through the Bible by reading a chapter or two each day.
The key here is to stick with it.
Most of the time, Bible reading feels like a nourishing bowl of oatmeal. Nothing shocking happens, but God’s Word feeds my spirit in a deep way, day after day.
For tips on how to actually encounter God as you read the Bible, keep reading.
8. Move beyond Bible reading and go deeper.
Bible reading is important, but interacting with God’s Word in other ways can help us grow even more.
I like to imagine I am on the scene of Bible stories and consider what it would have been like.
Memorizing Bible verses, studying the Bible, using commentaries, or using practices like Lectio Divina can help us get more out of God’s Word as well.
When I’m having trouble focusing on the Word, I copy passages into a journal.
Devotional time is also a good time to read other books that help you connect with God. I encourage you to make sure you are reading the Bible and use additional devotionals or books as supplements.
If you’re just getting started, a good devotional book can guide you through a Scripture reading and reflection. (Read to the end of today’s post for a free 31-day devotional eBook.)
9. Write in a journal.
If you like to write, you might use part of your devotional time to write reflections on your daily Bible reading in a journal.
You can also write prayers in a journal or use the journal as if you are writing a letter directly to God. This can be a good way to sort through troubling situations or heavy emotions.
10. Spend time talking to God and listening.
Prayer is nothing more than talking to God.
God loves you and wants a close relationship with you more than anything in the world.
Talk to him.
Tell him how you’re feeling and what you’re struggling with. Thank him for his gifts in your life and tell him what you need.
Many people overlook the fact that prayer also includes listening. Every day, I ask God to show me what he wants me to know about my life or the world around me. I then pay attention to any impressions that come to mind. When these impressions are wise and biblical, they are often God’s thoughts.
I also pray for other people during my devotional time.
A prayer list of names can be a life-changing tool for our intercessory prayers.
11. Worship God song.
Most mornings, I listen to at least one worship song. I might read Revelation 4 and imagine I am worshiping before God’s throne, or I might just tell God how much I adore him as I worship him.
Worship is powerful because it shifts our eyes away from temporal circumstances and onto God in the eternal realm.
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Lastly, it’s worth noting that if we connect with God during moments of quiet prayer but forget about him for the rest of the day, we aren’t really seeking him with our whole hearts. God wants us to talk to him all day, seeking him all day long.
Continue turning to him as you go about your day. It can help to set a timer or write notes to remind yourself to pause and look to him throughout the day.
God is always pursuing us.
Our role is to respond to the pursuit.
If these tips for seeking God with all your heart encouraged you, I invite you to explore our family devotionals and library of free devotional eBooks below. These resources can help you get started.
Calling All Moms and Dads!
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As the parent of two sons and a daughter, I have a heart for helping parents develop deeper relationships with their children and with God. Our kids, ages 6, 11, and 15, share this vision. They have helped me write three family devotionals for parents to read with their sons or daughters. 
A Devotional Book for Boys
God’s Warrior: Devotions for Boys Who Want to Grow in Courage and Strength helps young boys, ages 5-13, learn what it means to trust God and become strong warriors for his kingdom. Now, more than ever, our world needs men who are willing to boldly carry God’s love into the world. I wrote this boys’ devotional book with our two young sons, Aiden and Caleb, ages six and eleven! You’ll enjoy their honesty as we teach boys how to be strong warriors for the Lord. Find this life-changing devotional book here.
Two Devotional Books for Mothers and Daughters to Read Together
Girl to Girl: 60 Mother-Daughter Devotions for a Closer Relationship and Deeper Faith is written for girls ages 7-12. It includes 60 devotions with Scripture, conversation starters, and a shared journaling section for moms and daughters after each devotion. I wrote this book with the help of our daughter, Bekah, when she was eleven. Find this one-of-a-kind shared devotional here.
Heart to Heart: A Mother-Daughter Devotional With 50 Devotions for Teen Girls is for teenage girls ages 13-20. It includes 50 devotions, each with a shared journaling section to help moms and daughters connect through writing. This is a great book for moms who want to communicate about awkward topics—like dating, sexuality, peer pressure, and more—but don’t know where to start. Bekah and I will help you right here.
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