Two Ways to Fall More Deeply in Love With Jesus
The old sycamore leans over the icy creekbed with shoulders washed white by the weather. A pine squirrel watches us from a crook in the sycamore’s gnarled elbow, and I stop to get lost in the moment. Closing my eyes, I inhale the scent of the forest in winter and pray a quiet prayer that I might learn to embrace my moments and fall more deeply in love with Jesus in the process.
The past few years, I’ve been on a journey to slow down. I’ve been asking God to help me live with less grit and more grace. (You can read about this journey right here.) And in the process, God is changing me.
I’m also discovering that the secret for greater joy and deeper peace is falling more deeply in love with Jesus.
What does this look like in my world with winter wind rattling the windowpanes, toys strewn throughout the living room, and darkness falling in these late-afternoon hours? Here’s what it looks like for me:
2 Ways to Fall More Deeply in Love With Jesus:
1. We fall more deeply in love with Jesus when fear becomes a prompt to run to him.
The human brain tends to drift to life’s biggest problem at any given time and ruminate on that specific problem. Most of us know all about obsessing over our fears. You might be fearful for the future of your child, your health, or your job. You might be worried about keeping up with your schedule or paying the bills.
A few years ago, our family faced a scary health situation. I was undone. Fear kept me awake at night and greeted me first thing every morning. I woke up hoping our situation was just a bad dream, and as dawn broke over the tree line, I realized none of it was a dream.
Finally, I decided I was done being paralyzed by fear. I decided that every time I felt afraid about our future, I would run to Jesus instead.
It didn’t happen overnight, but after a few weeks, I realized I was no longer paralyzed by fear.
Instead of controlling me, fear became more like a blinking light on the outskirts of my soul. That little light reminded me to run to Jesus instead of submitting to fear.
What if fear became a prompt to send you running into Jesus’ arms too?
How to Run to Jesus
You might be wondering what I mean by “running into Jesus’ arms.”
How do you “run to Jesus” when you can’t see him with your physical eyes?
There are all sorts of ways to run to Jesus.
Run to Jesus by claiming a worship song that stirs your soul, and sing it softly when you feel fearful or worried.
Memorize a verse and speak it in the face of your fears.
Step outside and marvel at the work of God’s hands.
Take time to pursue a creative activity you enjoy—hike, bake, sew, paint, or write—and remain open to Jesus’ presence with you while you glorify him by joining him in the creation process. (Have you ever noticed how alive you feel inside when you create without hurrying or stressing about the outcome?)
Anything that stirs your heart to worship him—and lift your eyes off of your circumstances and onto him—is a tool for running to Jesus. We fall more deeply in love with Jesus any time a negative emotion (or a positive emotion) prompts us to run to him.
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2. Fall more deeply in love with Jesus through the discipline of secrecy.
Do you remember sharing secrets with your friends as a child? Secrets develop intimacy. When we keep good secrets with others, we bond. We form attachments.
Falling in love with Jesus is strengthening your attachment to him.
What might it look like for you to share secrets with Jesus?
You’ve probably heard of doing acts of kindness in secret—leaving anonymous donations in mailboxes and quarters in the shopping cart at Aldi—and not telling anyone.
Random acts of anonymous kindness are one kind of secrecy, but we can also keep secrets with Jesus by saving certain parts of our hearts for him alone.
Throughout the past months, I’ve been reminding myself that every moment of my life doesn’t have to be about pursuing measurable work for God’s kingdom. Every powerful interaction with God’s Word doesn’t have to turn into a blog post. Every precious moment of worship in my bedroom doesn’t have to become a chapter for my next book or even a story I share at Bible study.
Reserve Moments for Jesus Only
I’m learning to reserve certain moments for Jesus—for him alone. I don’t write about every divine revelation or moving worship experience. I encourage you to cultivate the discipline of secrecy by saving some of your moments for Jesus alone.
Take a walk beneath the sinking sun. Talk to him. Leave your phone at home.
The next time you have to eat a meal alone, imagine you are sitting with Jesus. You don’t have to talk while you eat. Simply enjoy his presence with you.
Open your Bible and expect to encounter Jesus. And when he reveals truth to you, let it linger in the secret place.
Worship Jesus on your face on your basement floor. Keep it as a sacred moment with the Lover of your soul.
I’m not saying we should never give testimony to Jesus’ work in our lives. We should! However, we develop a deeper intimacy with him by reserving some of our moments for just the two of us.
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